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When you have found the perfect woman and you are ready to propose, you will want to make sure that you purchase the perfect engagement ring. Traditionally, many women like to pick out the ring themselves and you can use this to your advantage, especially if you are planning on surprising her with a ring.

A great idea that you can use to your benefit is to browse some quality jewelry stores with her. Chances are, you can enter the store under false pretenses, perhaps say that you want to look at gold chains. She will most likely move over to the engagement rings by herself and begin browsing. If not, you can begin looking over some jewelry close to that section. Once she takes the bait, discuss the rings with her. This way you can find out what she likes, dislikes.

If you are on a limited budget but want to impress your fiancé with a big ring, but just don’t have the cash, see how she responds to Cubic Zirconia. Some women prefer size to authenticity. They would rather have a large showy Cubic Zirconia then a smaller diamond. Likewise, some women would cringe at the thought of a Cubic Zirconia and would prefer the best diamond that you can afford. Use this time to find your fiancés preferences for diamond cuts and shapes as well. Diamonds come in different shapes such as:

Your fiancé may have a personal favorite diamond shape and this would be a great time to probe and find out what it is. Also, if she is adamant about having a genuine diamond as opposed to a Cubic Zirconia, you will be pleased to know that the Pear, Marquise, and Oval diamond shapes tend to look larger than the other shapes. It is also good to know that the Round diamond shape is the most popular.

Cut is another area that you will need to consider when purchasing an engagement ring.
The cut of a diamond varies from its shape. Basically, there are three categories of cuts, and these all determine the brilliance as well as durability of the diamond.

The three basic diamond cuts are:

Choosing a diamond based on its cut will help ensure the beauty and value of your engagement ring.

You will also need to choose an engagement ring based upon the diamonds clarity and color. Asking the advice of an expert jeweler will help you feel more comfortable about purchasing the diamond. Another aspect to take into consideration is making sure that the engagement ring compliments the wedding band. You may decide that your decision process is simplified by choosing a bridal set. This includes an engagement ring as well as a wedding band. Often, the engagement ring will include a spacer to ensure that it fits properly with the band. If you choose to purchase a special engagement ring, or one that is custom designed, be sure to consider how it will fit with the wedding band. Also, choose a wedding band that compliments and doesn’t overpower the engagement ring.