How do I deal with the mother??? My boyfriend I have been together for a lil over a year now and he has 5 year old son, adorable. Since the beginning, our relationship has been plagued by his son's mother. She calls me, yells at me, calls me names, has told me a number of times that my boyfriend and her have slept together on a number of occasions. Every time this has happened, he has told me that she is crazy in love with him still and only says these things because she wants him back.

Well, come to find out, after a year of us being together, he came clean about sleeping with her a number of times. He says everything she says isn't true, but some of them were… I'm in the position now where I know I love him, I wish things could work for us, but I'm so hurt and have no trust left for him at all. How do I recover from this when I know that if I decide to be with him, she will STILL be a part of his (and MY) life forever????

Broken and devasted