PlanJam!From your screen to the scene

Don't be too sure of yourself. Ultimately, one of the biggest mistakes in the dating world occurs when a huge ego gets in the way of the heart. When you approach someone, be classy about it. Physical attraction is just the beginning; be in tune with yourself to see if you really have a connection worth going after. Most of the time, you’ll realize this within the first few minutes of being around someone.

When approaching someone, don’t begin the conversation by complimenting everything about them. Even though you may be sincere, many will interpret your style as a means for buttering them up. Consequently, they’ll doubt your intentions right from the start…especially if they sense that you do and/or say the same things to everyone. Choose something flattering about them (that’s maybe a little less obvious) and discuss that thing continuously throughout the conversation. This will go a long way in proving that you’re truly a sincere individual.

It’s not uncommon for people to meet when they least expect it. Therefore, it’s important that you open up to meeting new people, take a chance, and approach someone you may not have normally to see if there’s a connection. Doing so will yield positive thoughts about who you are and will drive a greater chance for success in a future relationship. Allow yourself to take chances when approaching people for the first time. Ultimately, what do you have to lose? A chance at a meaningful relationship, love, and maybe a soul mate…that's all! Be risky and get with it.