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Friday, June 15th, 2007
Categories: Advice For Men, Date Ideas, Gifts, Relationship Advice
Where you choose to take your girlfriend on her birthday should depend on the types of things she enjoys. It’s important that you listen closely during conversations to hear her mention something she hasn't done or wants to do; this could be the perfect time to embark on this experience. If she hasn’t mentioned anything recently, think back to when you first met and try to recall your discussion. In any event, she’ll be pleasantly surprised and super grateful that you listened to her and acted on that situation.
Blowout or Low-Key?
Some women may enjoy a huge blowout party while others may prefer a late-night picnic along the beach or a romantic dinner at home. Regardless, take the time to plan something that you know she’ll treasure and make sure her entire day is special. If she has to work that day, be sure to send her flowers or an email/text that gives her a clue about what’s in store for her that evening. The whole point here is to keep her on her toes!
The Season
The date of her birthday will also yield plethora of date options. For instance, a fall birthday may be a great chance to go to a cider mill, hike, or a nature walk. If she's a winter baby, take her ice skating (if you live in a cold climate) or just stay in by the fireplace while roasting smores. A spring birthday may lead to great picnic weather and a summer birthday girl may love a day at the fair or amusement park. Whatever you decide to do, be sure to showcase your intentions for her overall happiness on her big day!

(On November 28th, 2008 at 10:03 am)
wow, ahaha you certainly seem to be on the ball ..
its my birthday today and i cant seem to figure out what to do for it and my boyfriend , well hes not exactly an expert on surprises but all i can tell you is ROCK ONNNNN !
(On July 21st, 2009 at 9:11 am)
That was possibly the worst advise. I'd get better ideas from a dog or possibly a rock. I just pray to god you dont get paid for giving such obviously poor advice. I never bother to leave comments but your moronic ideas of going for a hike for her birthday, live in the real world not disney land. Thanks for nothing
(On October 25th, 2009 at 10:01 pm)
Gem – Sounds like your a nasty person…. You would be surprised how you feel when someone remembers something you have said and surprises you with it on a later date. Ps. Stay off the drugs!