Comments on: Moving In Together http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/24/moving-in-together/ Sun, 21 Mar 2010 22:22:16 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Frzrk http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/24/moving-in-together/comment-page-1/#comment-29509 Frzrk Tue, 11 Nov 2008 21:02:20 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/24/moving-in-together/#comment-29509 There are plenty of people out there that live together and that aren't married. Some think it's a great idea, because you can figure out what it's like to live with the person. Figure out if you really could stand being married to the person. Lots of messes have come, though, from people breaking up while they're living together. Leases aren't expired yet, maybe they co-signed on a car loan or have pets or children or etc. etc. These messes sound so emotionally and financially disturbing. I wouldn't want to have these messes. But I do love my boyfriend. Good article. There are plenty of people out there that live together and that aren't married. Some think it's a great idea, because you can figure out what it's like to live with the person. Figure out if you really could stand being married to the person.

Lots of messes have come, though, from people breaking up while they're living together. Leases aren't expired yet, maybe they co-signed on a car loan or have pets or children or etc. etc. These messes sound so emotionally and financially disturbing.

I wouldn't want to have these messes. But I do love my boyfriend. Good article.

]]> By: MATCHinform http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/24/moving-in-together/comment-page-1/#comment-5961 MATCHinform Thu, 28 Jun 2007 13:57:59 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/24/moving-in-together/#comment-5961 With all of the planning and contractual agreements, moving in together seems pretty darn similar to marriage. Except, of course, neither party is breaking their vows for such trivial matters such as infidelity. After all, they “aren’t married”. If you are willing to invest the time, energy and emotional commitment to move in with each other, take a step back and determine why this commitment falls short of marriage. After all you can still get to know each other living at separate addresses, and maybe those special things one can only know when they live with someone were only meant to be shared with your spouse. With all of the planning and contractual agreements, moving in together seems pretty darn similar to marriage. Except, of course, neither party is breaking their vows for such trivial matters such as infidelity. After all, they “aren’t married”. If you are willing to invest the time, energy and emotional commitment to move in with each other, take a step back and determine why this commitment falls short of marriage. After all you can still get to know each other living at separate addresses, and maybe those special things one can only know when they live with someone were only meant to be shared with your spouse.

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