Comments on: Waiting To Call After Your First Date http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:05:28 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Sam http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-36926 Sam Thu, 16 Apr 2009 05:07:37 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/#comment-36926 I was hooked up with guy who lives a ways away but is home about once a month. We hit it off and talked about when he is coming back and the possibility of me going to visit him in the next few months. He left yesterday..when is it right to text or call him again. 2-3 days and do I text or call him. and what do I say? I was hooked up with guy who lives a ways away but is home about once a month. We hit it off and talked about when he is coming back and the possibility of me going to visit him in the next few months. He left yesterday..when is it right to text or call him again. 2-3 days and do I text or call him. and what do I say?

]]> By: Jackson Wright http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-25224 Jackson Wright Sat, 13 Sep 2008 23:27:33 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/#comment-25224 Well if you ask me, I think texting is the WRONG way about going at it. My opinion on texting is that it's a wall of insecurity you are able to hide behind since it's more planned out and has the ability to be changed or deleted. I think the best thing you can do is CALL HER. Nothing says confidence than two people exchanging dialogue. Even if the conversation ends up being so awkward and painful filled with rejection between the two of you, at least you're able to walk away with satisfaction in that you tried. Truthfully, I think that in itself is the basic foundation of a good date. I'm telling you, if you had a great time I would advise that you call her in person. Tell her you had a great time with her and you would love to see her again. Good luck and stay off the texting. Who knows, she probably doesn't have text messaging capabilities. Well if you ask me, I think texting is the WRONG way about going at it. My opinion on texting is that it's a wall of insecurity you are able to hide behind since it's more planned out and has the ability to be changed or deleted. I think the best thing you can do is CALL HER. Nothing says confidence than two people exchanging dialogue. Even if the conversation ends up being so awkward and painful filled with rejection between the two of you, at least you're able to walk away with satisfaction in that you tried. Truthfully, I think that in itself is the basic foundation of a good date. I'm telling you, if you had a great time I would advise that you call her in person. Tell her you had a great time with her and you would love to see her again. Good luck and stay off the texting. Who knows, she probably doesn't have text messaging capabilities.

]]> By: Ron Zvagelsky http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-17993 Ron Zvagelsky Mon, 07 Apr 2008 18:49:06 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/#comment-17993 If I had a good time and want to see my date again, I always make a habit out of texting after a date with something like, "I had a fabulous time...thanks for your company". This opens up communication and makes it easier to get in touch with them again soon. Not sure how she responded after you texted her on Sunday but I would suggest that you don't wait that long to call if you had a good time. Good Luck! If I had a good time and want to see my date again, I always make a habit out of texting after a date with something like, "I had a fabulous time…thanks for your company". This opens up communication and makes it easier to get in touch with them again soon.

Not sure how she responded after you texted her on Sunday but I would suggest that you don't wait that long to call if you had a good time.

Good Luck!

]]> By: Mike http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-17967 Mike Mon, 07 Apr 2008 00:43:54 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/06/25/waiting-to-call-after-your-first-date/#comment-17967 Yeah well me and this girl went out on a wendsday, it is now sunday night. I was gonna call her earlier, but i just wussed out kinda and so i just texted her, wait for a response. I'll be seeing her at school tommorrow, any advise? Yeah well me and this girl went out on a wendsday, it is now sunday night. I was gonna call her earlier, but i just wussed out kinda and so i just texted her, wait for a response. I'll be seeing her at school tommorrow, any advise?

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