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Is Your Relationship Moving Too Fast?
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  1. Carmin Wharton says —

    A relationship is NOT the place to seek thrilling adventures! Slow, easy and deliberate is the route to take if one is considering a long-term or committed relationship. Not only will slowing down give your relationship time to blossom (if that is to be), it will also give you time to see the good, bad and ugly of your partner. Hopefully, the bad and ugly don't exist but if they do, you sure want to know that they exist before you have invested too much time, your heart and maybe even your money.

    The writer is correct in stating that to stand the test of time, a relationship must go through some trials and tribulations. Trials and tribulations are not arrived at or over come in a quick, thrilling, short-time relationship.

    Carmin Wharton, The Relationship Teacher
    Author, "Lessons Learned: While Looking for Love in All the Wrong Faces
    http://www.carminwharton.com

  2. Brianna says —

    Well, actually my boyfriend and I have been going through this exact thing. Here's the kicker, we're both still in high school and still teens.
    We're working through it, we're talking and handling it in a very mature way. We've decided not to even broach the subject of marriage, children, lifetimes, or anything reguarding such a long time commitment.
    We're both also Christians and we're trying to incorporate that into our relationship.
    A person CANNOT expect three months, five months, or even ten months to yield lifetime results. You need to allow yourselves to grow and get to know eachother on more than a make-out, make-love, 'maul' level.

  3. Megan says —

    I've been dating this guy for not so long and we haven't talked about marriage or anything but we have talked about cool ways of proposal, however, we'd like to spend forever together we don't jinx it. The more you talk about marriage and spending life together the more you analyze what you don't think you could live with in that person. This just makes matters worse and then you pick at that until something changes. I've had this experience and well for me it always ends up that we break up. So with this boy we don't speak of it often, we spend time together and with it being summer I've seen him pretty much everyday. I hope things work between me and my boy cause I do feel like I love him. However, if they don't there's always someone else out there.


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