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I am sure that you’ve heard of, "love at first sight", or "opposites attract", or even heard the statement, "we had instant chemistry". If you’ve ever wondered if there was anything scientific to prove any of these declarations you may be surprised to learn that there are. Many scientific studies are showing that hormones play a strong role in the early stages of a relationship. When couples first fall in love, a number of hormones are on the rise. These hormones elevate feelings of pleasure and explain why couples in love can only think about each other and feel as if they're walking on air.

When an individual first meets a potential love interest, the first question they usually have is whether or not the other party is interested in him or her. If the chemistry exists, then hormones will be elevated and though you may not be able to take a blood test, you can check for certain behaviors. Here are some signs that will let you know whether or not you and your person of interest have chemistry.

One of the first things that you should look for is body language. If you and your special someone have chemistry, you’ll notice that they have open body language with you. This means that they won’t cross their arms or legs as much, and when speaking with you, their body language will be more open or inviting.

When speaking with someone you’re interested in, check to see if they look you directly in the eye. You may also notice that they keep watching you when you’re in the room but not engaged in conversation. If you have body chemistry, you’ll feel it when both of you look into each other’s eyes. Failure to make eye contact during conversation is a good indicator that the other person isn’t interested. However, you should also consider the fact that some people are painfully shy, and may be extremely interested in you, yet too shy to look at you. If this is the case, you’ll notice that as soon as you leave, they are consistently following you with their eyes. They may also stutter, pause, or act nervous when they’re around you.

Another good indication that you and your love interest have chemistry is whether or not they touch you when speaking too you. Now no one appreciates inappropriate groping, however, when there is body chemistry between two people, you’ll find that the smallest touch brings an instant connection. Whether it is a tap on the arm, or holding someone’s hand, if your person of interest finds ways to touch you when speaking to you, and you respond, then there is chemistry being exchanged.