PlanJam!From your screen to the scene

No, you don’t need to get plastic surgery to become attractive to women. You may be surprised to discover that the qualities women are seeking in men are much more than skin deep. In fact, if you want to become attractive to women, it will serve you greatly to work on inner characteristics and traits rather than the outward appearance. Of course, you need to work on your physical appearance, have good grooming, and make the most of your natural strengths, but the true characteristics that make men the most appealing to women are virtues that rest under the surface. If you’ve ever asked the question, "How did that guy get her?", then these tips are for you.

The first way to be attractive to any woman is to exude self-confidence. Women are attracted to men who are sure of themselves. From the moment you first meet until you finally say, "I do", let your relationship be one based on self-confidence. If a woman knows that you are sure of yourself, set goals and achieve them, and are the type of person who doesn’t let other people get in your way, she will be attracted to and respect your level of self-confidence. It may sound cliché, but if you want a woman to believe that you are a great catch, you must first believe it yourself, and then demonstrate it to her with your positive attitude and self-confidence.

Along with self-confidence, a man will appear more attractive to women if he has a sense of humor. Being positive, laughing at life, and just being a fun person to be with makes people want to be around you. Women find a sense of humor very appealing. Have you ever noticed how many comedians date models? Dudley Moore dated Susan Anton; David Spade has been linked to Heather Locklear and now Pamela Anderson. Their secret is humor. Women love to laugh and a man who can make a woman laugh instead of cry is valued more than gold. It’s important to remember that women are very emotional and are often more susceptible to mood swings. Women love to be surrounded by people that can help bring joy to their lives. A funny man will always find that he has plenty of women to choose from.

Finally, if you want to be attractive to a woman, learn how to treat them like gold. Being courteous, a gentleman, and treating a woman with respect will make you look like a great life partner and will allow you to shine in her eyes. However, don’t make the mistake of confusing chivalry with cowardice. Women are attracted to men who treat them with a gentle hand, but they still want a man who can handle himself around other males.