Comments on: Are Friends With Benefits Really Beneficial? http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/ Sun, 21 Mar 2010 05:43:27 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: elimejeaste http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/comment-page-1/#comment-39254 elimejeaste Thu, 04 Jun 2009 03:59:50 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/#comment-39254 Sweet blog. I never know what I am going to come across next. I think you should do more posting as you have some pretty intelligent stuff to say. I'll be watching you <a title="roulette strategy" href="http://www.roulettesniper.com" rel="nofollow">.</a> <a title="blackjack strategy" href="http://www.blackjacksniper.com" rel="nofollow">:)</a> Sweet blog. I never know what I am going to come across next. I think you should do more posting as you have some pretty intelligent stuff to say.

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]]> By: Sammy http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/comment-page-1/#comment-31071 Sammy Tue, 09 Dec 2008 00:09:07 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/#comment-31071 OMG.. that is so true.. and i think im stuck in the maybe zone, and it really really bothers me cause i'd like to be in the yes section.. i mean i really like him and dont feel like this is really benefiting me, and me tellin ppl i dont want a relationship is a lie cause i do, i want to be happy and loved.. I dont want to be (Half way there to nowhere) thats dumb i mean if really liked me he'd wants more from us than just a hi bye in school but late night talks on the phone.. i agree with every word you said.. OMG.. that is so true.. and i think im stuck in the maybe zone, and it really really bothers me cause i'd like to be in the yes section.. i mean i really like him and dont feel like this is really benefiting me, and me tellin ppl i dont want a relationship is a lie cause i do, i want to be happy and loved.. I dont want to be (Half way there to nowhere) thats dumb i mean if really liked me he'd wants more from us than just a hi bye in school but late night talks on the phone.. i agree with every word you said..

]]> By: jim http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/comment-page-1/#comment-14175 jim Sat, 15 Dec 2007 22:22:36 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/#comment-14175 and that's my story... and that's my story…

]]> By: jim http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/comment-page-1/#comment-14174 jim Sat, 15 Dec 2007 22:20:01 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2007/10/20/are-friends-with-benefits-really-beneficial/#comment-14174 the statement "So, now am asking you, is your friend with benefits beneficial?" really hits me....am currently in a situation of having a friend with benefits. though b4 i got myself into the arrangement, i tried to weigh things up. i know that a lot of bad thing could come out of it, but still am taking the risk. my friend currently has a gf, and before we agreed i ask him why he would wanna be FWB with me even if he already have a gf. he said he's not really that serious with his girl. we also agreed the we won't get emotionally get attatched. it's usually him who initiate ssince he has the place...if he wants to do it, he would just txt me and then meet at his place when everybody else is out. i on the other hand gave him the permission to be that way since i don't have a place myself...aside from doing the activity just for fun, i have other reasons. my relatives are very family oriented and thay have this strick rules wherein despite of my legal age and finishing college, i still am not allowed to have a bf. so, aside from the fun thing, i think am doing this as a form of rebellion against my family's rules. i want to be in a serious open relationship but i'de rather not take the risk of disappointing my family of doing so. having an FWB is i know, not the solution of this. but it gives me the benefit of getting to do things similar to that of having a serious relationship without being emotionally attached and the benefit of being able to drop and live the arrangement without getting heart broken if ever my family finds out. more than myself, i blame my family for this behavior. coz i wouldn't have gotten myself into this if not because of thier sometimes irrational rules. it's just sometimes to much for me to bear and even my cousins feel that same way. sometimes when i go out they would warn me about going to my bf's even if i don't have..it's just do frustrating to hear thing like that from them. sometime their reminders sounds like a threat to me, they would say that i they ever caught me holding hands with a boy they would reprimand my behavior even in public which is very embarassing if it happens. i don't want to go on with my FWB for a long time coz i know i could distroy either of us if either of us gets emotionally attached with each other. i've known him since elementary grade which make me comfortable being with him. because of my family's behavior, am feeling hopeless if i ever am gonna have a serious ralationship of my own choice coz it seems to me that before i could have one and be allowed to have one, they must first scrutinize that person and if they don't like him they would tell me not to go on with the relationship...and this really frustrates me. the statement "So, now am asking you, is your friend with benefits beneficial?" really hits me….am currently in a situation of having a friend with benefits. though b4 i got myself into the arrangement, i tried to weigh things up. i know that a lot of bad thing could come out of it, but still am taking the risk. my friend currently has a gf, and before we agreed i ask him why he would wanna be FWB with me even if he already have a gf. he said he's not really that serious with his girl. we also agreed the we won't get emotionally get attatched. it's usually him who initiate ssince he has the place…if he wants to do it, he would just txt me and then meet at his place when everybody else is out. i on the other hand gave him the permission to be that way since i don't have a place myself…aside from doing the activity just for fun, i have other reasons. my relatives are very family oriented and thay have this strick rules wherein despite of my legal age and finishing college, i still am not allowed to have a bf. so, aside from the fun thing, i think am doing this as a form of rebellion against my family's rules. i want to be in a serious open relationship but i'de rather not take the risk of disappointing my family of doing so. having an FWB is i know, not the solution of this. but it gives me the benefit of getting to do things similar to that of having a serious relationship without being emotionally attached and the benefit of being able to drop and live the arrangement without getting heart broken if ever my family finds out. more than myself, i blame my family for this behavior. coz i wouldn't have gotten myself into this if not because of thier sometimes irrational rules. it's just sometimes to much for me to bear and even my cousins feel that same way. sometimes when i go out they would warn me about going to my bf's even if i don't have..it's just do frustrating to hear thing like that from them. sometime their reminders sounds like a threat to me, they would say that i they ever caught me holding hands with a boy they would reprimand my behavior even in public which is very embarassing if it happens. i don't want to go on with my FWB for a long time coz i know i could distroy either of us if either of us gets emotionally attached with each other. i've known him since elementary grade which make me comfortable being with him. because of my family's behavior, am feeling hopeless if i ever am gonna have a serious ralationship of my own choice coz it seems to me that before i could have one and be allowed to have one, they must first scrutinize that person and if they don't like him they would tell me not to go on with the relationship…and this really frustrates me.

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