Comments on: Celibacy Dating – An Oxymoron?

By: louise lewis

louise lewis — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 15:25:32 +0000

I came on this to view other peoples ideas on celibacy. I have been celibate 3yrs after a series of bad relationships. Now I fully appreciate God's intentions and guidlines for dating. I have just met up with an old boyfriend and I have just told him that I am celibate. He can't understand my christian faith and why I slept with other men 3yrs ago. I feel pressured and feel that this relationship is coming to an end. All because I have put God first in my life and I also want a long meaningfull relationship plus no sex before marriage. I must also point out that I enjoy sex, I am not a prude like my friends are makingout.

By: geogia peach

geogia peach — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 21:27:25 +0000

I AGREE WITH YOU A MILLION TIMES.

By: AJ

AJ — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 20:15:15 +0000

Hi! I have been celibate since the 12/30/08. Since then I have been asked out several times and realize that most men just want sex because I am upfront about my celibacy before we even go out. Most guys scoff at the idea of celibacy! I find it to be a useful tool to prevent my time from being wasted and weeding out the bad apples,jerks and players. I feel it's GOD's way of giving me discernment. My promise to GOD is celibacy until marriage! I praise GOD for enlightening my spirit and giving me the courage and confidence to love HIM first and love self and heal my heart from sexual ludeness and promiscuity! Thank GOD! If I sound arrogant, I"ll be that because it's what the Lord wants for me! Stay encouraged and be blessed!!!