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Tuesday, February 19th, 2008
Categories: Advice For Men, Advice For Women, Dating Advice, Misc Advice
Whether you’re getting ready for a first date, a hundredth with your life partner or a fun night out on the town with your friends, it’s always important to look your best. Of course, this doesn’t mean you need to abandon your personality or break the bank in the process, but a little sprucing up never hurt anyone! After all, you really do only get one chance to make a lasting first impression – with anyone you may run into. And yes, this is coming from someone who needs little reminders herself!
If where you’re headed is someplace very casual, like say a bowling alley or miniature golfing, that still doesn’t warrant hoodies and baggy sweats. Of course, dressing for the weather is crucial too, but there’s a good and bad way to layer. Wear clothes that fit you well and show off a bit of your personal flair. Neutrals are great, but be sure there is a little something that has a hint of character, be it pattern, design or a touch of color. Even my Goth friends know that color is the new black these days! If you have a pootch you desperately want to keep under wraps, then go ahead and wrap it, by wearing a nice jacket or blazer.
Shoes – ahhh shoes! I wish I could wear those mile high stilettos I see in the movies, but I make due with a cute pair of princess cut boots instead. Whatever your taste in footwear, just be sure they are comfortable, clean but are also appropriate for where you’re heading. Gym shoes do not go with dress slacks, and only a true glutton for punishment would wear any sort of a heel for a hike – yes, even a wedge.
And finally, we touch upon a topic most of us have been taught along with sharing our cookies - Personal hygiene and good grooming. They go a long way to making a great fashion statement, and it’s one that never goes out of style. I know this is a gimme, but there are so many people out there I really wish I could drop a not so subtle hint about coffee breath or greasy hair! Also, please, for da lubba gawd, go easy on the aftershave and perfume. You’re a knock out all on your own – you don’t need your cologne to do that for you. And while I tend to disagree with that Nick fellow bobbing every gal’s hair on that cable makeover show, getting a good haircut every so often will do wonders for your appearance and confidence.


(On February 24th, 2008 at 1:00 pm)
Good advice. It's just as important to not be overdressed and not look "cheesy" like so many guys do. Few things are more unattractive than a guy who tries too hard…
Thanks,
Arkady
http://www.practicalhappiness.com
(On February 25th, 2008 at 11:24 am)
Hey Arkady,
Haha! That sounds like one of my brothers! Every time we get together, I always get the distinct impression he is purposely trying to pull a one-ups-it on everyone else in the room. Never fear, for I have my ways of bringing him back down to Earth. (You know, threatening to resurrect fond yet truly embarrassing kid stories! haha!)
In all fairness though, there are just as many women who also try too hard. Think about it: hasn't there ever been a time where you wish you could politely tell a woman her makeup looks way too heavy, or, dare I say, gaudy! I have a friend who goes overboard with the eye shadow, using these bold, brash colors that seem to cover almost the entire top half of her face, deterring from her natural beauty. Then there's another friend who uses her eyeliner to make a mole (ala Cindy Crawford); I really wish I had the heart to tell her how Amateur Hour it looks!
Thanks for the comment!