http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/07/18/looking-for-unconditional-love-forget-it/ Fri, 19 Mar 2010 16:09:07 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/07/18/looking-for-unconditional-love-forget-it/comment-page-1/#comment-34024 abcd Tue, 10 Feb 2009 13:41:03 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/?p=397#comment-34024 The only reason you don't think unconditional love exists is because you have never received it, given it, or experienced it. I know it exists because I receive it from my husband. And anyone who receives it will not be cruel, murderous, or abusive, because unconditional love will transform anyone into a loving person. I feel sorry for people who try to rationalize that it doensn't exist just because they haven't found it. You don't need to earn real love. If they truely love you, they will love you no matter what. They don't need you to do anything or be anything. They will love you, treasure you, value you, desire you, even if you have an accident and your'e bedridden or even if your'e in a coma for the rest of your life, or if your skin is totally burnt from survivng a fire and you don't look anything like before. I am sure my husband will love me like that. When you have it, you know, although it is rare and I know a lot of people never find it in their lifetimes, like my parents never did. The only reason you don't think unconditional love exists is because you have never received it, given it, or experienced it. I know it exists because I receive it from my husband. And anyone who receives it will not be cruel, murderous, or abusive, because unconditional love will transform anyone into a loving person. I feel sorry for people who try to rationalize that it doensn't exist just because they haven't found it. You don't need to earn real love. If they truely love you, they will love you no matter what. They don't need you to do anything or be anything. They will love you, treasure you, value you, desire you, even if you have an accident and your'e bedridden or even if your'e in a coma for the rest of your life, or if your skin is totally burnt from survivng a fire and you don't look anything like before. I am sure my husband will love me like that. When you have it, you know, although it is rare and I know a lot of people never find it in their lifetimes, like my parents never did.

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