Comments on: Being the Other Woman (or Man) http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/08/12/being-the-other-woman-or-man/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:05:28 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Mindy http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/08/12/being-the-other-woman-or-man/comment-page-1/#comment-42424 Mindy Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:44:14 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/?p=443#comment-42424 Excellent article. You don't know how many times I've seen women (more than men) get hurt or devastated like this & it all started out like "fun". I agree with you that all men/women don't cheat because they are unhappy at home or something is wrong with the spouse. That's why I see many other women, more than other men, so devastated when they are dumped. They actually thought the married man/woman loved them or that they actually had something better than the spouse at home & that made them excited. When they are dumped by the married man/woman, they realized they were being used to get the man through a difficult time that had nothing to do with the wife or even his wife's (or husband's) fault, but every thing to do with him/her. Advice to women/men considering seeing a married person: Adultery and lying are one and the same. You can't have one without the other. The married perons WILL LIE TO YOU & you lie (and lay) with them. In other words, the two of you become "partners in crime" committing theft against God, his wife and children & other loved ones. Excellent article. You don't know how many times I've seen women (more than men) get hurt or devastated like this & it all started out like "fun". I agree with you that all men/women don't cheat because they are unhappy at home or something is wrong with the spouse. That's why I see many other women, more than other men, so devastated when they are dumped. They actually thought the married man/woman loved them or that they actually had something better than the spouse at home & that made them excited. When they are dumped by the married man/woman, they realized they were being used to get the man through a difficult time that had nothing to do with the wife or even his wife's (or husband's) fault, but every thing to do with him/her.

Advice to women/men considering seeing a married person: Adultery and lying are one and the same. You can't have one without the other. The married perons WILL LIE TO YOU & you lie (and lay) with them. In other words, the two of you become "partners in crime" committing theft against God, his wife and children & other loved ones.

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