Comments on: Being the Other Woman (or Man) http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/08/12/being-the-other-woman-or-man/ Sun, 21 Mar 2010 05:43:27 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Baby http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/08/12/being-the-other-woman-or-man/comment-page-1/#comment-49673 Baby Sun, 21 Mar 2010 05:43:27 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/?p=443#comment-49673 It is so easy to get into and so hard to get out of. The lying and "fun" end really quick, but the feelings are another thing... once you are trapped in this fantasy "love" its very difficult to let it go. Be smart. Dont believe them when they tell you that you are the one they have been waiting for, or when they imply its you they want. They dont- what they want is the excitement and when thats not so much fun anymore- they will go back to WHAT THEY ALREADY HAVE. It is so easy to get into and so hard to get out of. The lying and "fun" end really quick, but the feelings are another thing… once you are trapped in this fantasy "love" its very difficult to let it go.
Be smart. Dont believe them when they tell you that you are the one they have been waiting for, or when they imply its you they want. They dont- what they want is the excitement and when thats not so much fun anymore- they will go back to WHAT THEY ALREADY HAVE.

]]> By: Mindy http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/08/12/being-the-other-woman-or-man/comment-page-1/#comment-42424 Mindy Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:44:14 +0000 http://www.planjam.com/weblog/?p=443#comment-42424 Excellent article. You don't know how many times I've seen women (more than men) get hurt or devastated like this & it all started out like "fun". I agree with you that all men/women don't cheat because they are unhappy at home or something is wrong with the spouse. That's why I see many other women, more than other men, so devastated when they are dumped. They actually thought the married man/woman loved them or that they actually had something better than the spouse at home & that made them excited. When they are dumped by the married man/woman, they realized they were being used to get the man through a difficult time that had nothing to do with the wife or even his wife's (or husband's) fault, but every thing to do with him/her. Advice to women/men considering seeing a married person: Adultery and lying are one and the same. You can't have one without the other. The married perons WILL LIE TO YOU & you lie (and lay) with them. In other words, the two of you become "partners in crime" committing theft against God, his wife and children & other loved ones. Excellent article. You don't know how many times I've seen women (more than men) get hurt or devastated like this & it all started out like "fun". I agree with you that all men/women don't cheat because they are unhappy at home or something is wrong with the spouse. That's why I see many other women, more than other men, so devastated when they are dumped. They actually thought the married man/woman loved them or that they actually had something better than the spouse at home & that made them excited. When they are dumped by the married man/woman, they realized they were being used to get the man through a difficult time that had nothing to do with the wife or even his wife's (or husband's) fault, but every thing to do with him/her.

Advice to women/men considering seeing a married person: Adultery and lying are one and the same. You can't have one without the other. The married perons WILL LIE TO YOU & you lie (and lay) with them. In other words, the two of you become "partners in crime" committing theft against God, his wife and children & other loved ones.

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