Comments on: Stop Using Sex as a Weapon

By: millly

millly — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 06:03:34 +0000

omg! my boyfriend totally withholds sex from me to control me.An worse he admitted to it not long ago! I find it so hard to stay interested in him.I even put up a ad on a dating site. I know I am acting out of frustration. I also see how his parents show no affection for each other.So its clear where he learned his behavior from. He just laughs at me when I say im going to leave him or be with another man.Any advice?

By: em

em — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 00:22:41 +0000

in my experience men use sex to dominate the woman–not the reverse. If a woman is not ALWAYS ready, then the man withholds sex as a weapon. This makes a woman, who is used to sex everday, feel unwanted and definitely rejected. Then he tells me that he had to masturbate while I way lying in his bed naked–due to my disinterest. Someone who wants sex at every opportunity and then suddenly is uninterested is sending a message of, at best, disinterest and at worst–hate and disapproval.

By: Vivian

Vivian — Tue, 05 May 2009 15:30:09 +0000

Sex as a weapon ?
Men use it as a weapon.When I research I find nothing but articles and advice about women who do it.
My x doe's. I know im not the only one who has experenced this.People need to feel attractive and needed . Women more so in my view.It is so emotionally damageing yet there is no advice or councel I can find.
vivian