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	<title>Comments on: Four Signs You’re Compatible</title>
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		<title>By: al</title>
		<link>http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/12/12/four-signs-you%e2%80%99re-compatible/comment-page-1/#comment-47076</link>
		<dc:creator>al</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 21:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a question, what about couples that have different social circles, like i like the artsy crowd and my gf likes the rnb clubs. I feel like we compromise and are at times wondering if either of us would be more suited for someone in our own circle. However i did discuss the matter with her, as we are a well &quot;self-controlled&quot; couple and we openly speak about matters, and she vowed that she just likes different music. But when we go out to her kind of places, maybe its just me being paranoid, but i see her fascination and how she enjoys the attention from that kinda crowd. 

Thank for your kind words of wisdom, i would really appreciate some advice as this is the ONLY thing that creates anxiety in our relationship. cause she too in my circle gets the same paranoia.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a question, what about couples that have different social circles, like i like the artsy crowd and my gf likes the rnb clubs. I feel like we compromise and are at times wondering if either of us would be more suited for someone in our own circle. However i did discuss the matter with her, as we are a well &#034;self-controlled&#034; couple and we openly speak about matters, and she vowed that she just likes different music. But when we go out to her kind of places, maybe its just me being paranoid, but i see her fascination and how she enjoys the attention from that kinda crowd. </p>
<p>Thank for your kind words of wisdom, i would really appreciate some advice as this is the ONLY thing that creates anxiety in our relationship. cause she too in my circle gets the same paranoia.</p>
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		<title>By: Latin Relationship Advice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Latin Relationship Advice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 23:53:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree with these, especially #1. I personally experience the non sexual compatibility and it is not fun. It is even worst when the woman sexual drive is higher than the man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree with these, especially #1. I personally experience the non sexual compatibility and it is not fun. It is even worst when the woman sexual drive is higher than the man.</p>
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		<title>By: How to tell if someone is compatible to you</title>
		<link>http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/12/12/four-signs-you%e2%80%99re-compatible/comment-page-1/#comment-45946</link>
		<dc:creator>How to tell if someone is compatible to you</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 02:57:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Does love at first sight truly exist? Can you make a date fall for you?  How do you know whether the person personality is compatible with you? I always ask this question to myself when I am going out with strangers aka online friends where I meet them at facebook or friendster.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does love at first sight truly exist? Can you make a date fall for you?  How do you know whether the person personality is compatible with you? I always ask this question to myself when I am going out with strangers aka online friends where I meet them at facebook or friendster.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:05:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Download Free Dating &amp; Relationship Ebook :<br />
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		<title>By: Anderson</title>
		<link>http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/12/12/four-signs-you%e2%80%99re-compatible/comment-page-1/#comment-45036</link>
		<dc:creator>Anderson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you can get along well in most situations without any major disputes, well that is compatability according to me...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you can get along well in most situations without any major disputes, well that is compatability according to me&#8230;<br />
Discrete dating site for those married , or in a relationship,<br />
and looking for discreet married dating.<br />
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		<title>By: marie</title>
		<link>http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/12/12/four-signs-you%e2%80%99re-compatible/comment-page-1/#comment-39606</link>
		<dc:creator>marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 00:23:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey its been a long time sense i posted this question but your answer really helped me i just asked him and it worked. turns out he was yes, very shy. so was i and it was hard to ask but that was a long time ago, we are doing great! we are engaged and have been for awhile. that was a hard thing to get through, the whole &quot;first time&quot; thing but its worth it to wait and you helped me work up the nerve to just ask. so thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey its been a long time sense i posted this question but your answer really helped me i just asked him and it worked. turns out he was yes, very shy. so was i and it was hard to ask but that was a long time ago, we are doing great! we are engaged and have been for awhile. that was a hard thing to get through, the whole &#034;first time&#034; thing but its worth it to wait and you helped me work up the nerve to just ask. so thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Farah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Farah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 17:11:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Marie,

I had a similar problem once cept i was the one that couldn&#039;t go through with it. I think i was feeling a bit shy. but the best way to go about is if you just ask... hey we have been dating for a while now... maybe we should take it to the next stage ;) and just do it lolz

and if it doesn&#039;t work then hmm.. discuss why not :S</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marie,</p>
<p>I had a similar problem once cept i was the one that couldn&#039;t go through with it. I think i was feeling a bit shy. but the best way to go about is if you just ask&#8230; hey we have been dating for a while now&#8230; maybe we should take it to the next stage <img src='http://www.planjam.com/weblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  and just do it lolz</p>
<p>and if it doesn&#039;t work then hmm.. discuss why not :S</p>
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		<title>By: marie</title>
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		<dc:creator>marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 07:48:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my relationship is strong in three of theses areas you speak of. but i need help on the first one. being open about sex. see i think i have a stronger sex drive then my boyfriend. but i dont know what he thinks about it. he seems to withdrawal whenever i make a sexual joke or something. i dont know how to talk to him openly about sex in our relationship due to the fact he concentraits so much more on the romantic factor. we havent had sex yet but i need a way to find out how he feels about it. i dont mind waiting to have sex, but if we never do thats a problem. i want our relationship to develoup in a healthy way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my relationship is strong in three of theses areas you speak of. but i need help on the first one. being open about sex. see i think i have a stronger sex drive then my boyfriend. but i dont know what he thinks about it. he seems to withdrawal whenever i make a sexual joke or something. i dont know how to talk to him openly about sex in our relationship due to the fact he concentraits so much more on the romantic factor. we havent had sex yet but i need a way to find out how he feels about it. i dont mind waiting to have sex, but if we never do thats a problem. i want our relationship to develoup in a healthy way.</p>
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		<title>By: Linda Altizer</title>
		<link>http://www.planjam.com/weblog/2008/12/12/four-signs-you%e2%80%99re-compatible/comment-page-1/#comment-31901</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda Altizer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 20:51:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am counciling a friend and your web site is very helpful and straight forward.  Thanks you! Linda</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am counciling a friend and your web site is very helpful and straight forward.  Thanks you! Linda</p>
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