PlanJam!From your screen to the scene

My guy and I have been together for over a decade, so I think I know a thing or two about what makes a great Valentine’s Day and what doesn’t. Now granted, I’m not a diamonds and champagne kind of gal, but time and time again, whenever I share some of my date stories, I always get a swoon from the ladies and a nod of approval from the guys! Here’s a little story that I’m sure will get your gears going!
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With Valentine’s Day slowly lurking around the corner, couples just starting out can feel a lot of anxiety building up as to how to approach such a romantic milestone. Expensive jewelry, pricey get aways and black tie engagements are off the list, and candy and flowers can be misconstrued as either being more friendly than romantic or simply lacking in creativity altogether. Fear not, for there are lots of inexpensive yet cherishably memorable ways to beat Cupid at his own game and set the tone for the rest of the year!
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No, you don’t need to get plastic surgery to become attractive to women. You may be surprised to discover that the qualities women are seeking in men are much more than skin deep. In fact, if you want to become attractive to women, it will serve you greatly to work on inner characteristics and traits rather than the outward appearance. Of course, you need to work on your physical appearance, have good grooming, and make the most of your natural strengths, but the true characteristics that make men the most appealing to women are virtues that rest under the surface. If you’ve ever asked the question, "How did that guy get her?", then these tips are for you.

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It may come as a surprise, but many short men date tall women. In fact, there are a number of celebrities that are 5'7 and under. A few in particular include Al Pacino, David Spade, Tom Cruise, Michael J. Fox, Emilio Estevez, Dustin Hoffman, Seth Green, Martin Sheen, and Prince (who is 5'2). Despite being short, it would seem that they defy the adage that tall women aren't attracted to shorter men. When it comes down to choosing a mate, height isn't one of the most important factors. Many women choose to date men that are shorter than them. Being short doesn't mean that you have lost your sense of style or appeal. In fact, all of these men are known for their style, good looks, and ability to attract beautiful tall women.

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When a man goes on a first date with a woman, he may be nervous, anxious, and on edge. There may be many mistakes or awkward moments that he finds himself in the middle of, however there are certain mistakes that should always be avoided, whether on the first date or early in a dating relationship. Realizing these mistakes can help men increase their chances of having long meaningful relationships with the woman that they care about and will help bridge the gap from dating to a serious relationship.

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If you’ve ever wondered what women are or aren’t attracted to, then you’re not alone. All men want to be attractive to women, and though beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there are definite things that all women find unappealing. If you’ve ever wanted to make sure that you identify all behaviors that women find offensive so that you can eradicate them from your life, then stay tuned. These tips will help ensure that you avoid common pitfalls that are sure to send women running in the other direction.

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When it comes to sex, it's important that both members enter into all aspects of their relationship with a healthy and positive attitude. However, no one is positive every day, and it's only a matter of time before doubt, low self esteem, and negativity may cause issues to arise.

One area in particular, where low self-image can wreak havoc in a relationship, is when men struggle with self esteem issues regarding sex. This may be due to comments that their partner has made, issues that existed in previous relationships, or simply a poor self-image that the man has imagined. However, despite the cause, there is no doubt that low self esteem can negatively affect the way a man performs sexually.

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In the art of love and seduction, there is one area that cannot be overlooked: scent. Many men feel overwhelmed at the thought of choosing the best scent to attract women. However, they may be surprised to learn that the majority of women are aroused by the scent of a clean man who has a slight hint of natural body odor. Now, don’t get excited, throw out your aftershave and deodorant and decide you can forget about doing laundry for the next month, it is only a "slight" hint. Too much body odor and anyone is naturally repulsed.

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Where you choose to take your girlfriend on her birthday should depend on the types of things she enjoys. It’s important that you listen closely during conversations to hear her mention something she hasn't done or wants to do; this could be the perfect time to embark on this experience. If she hasn’t mentioned anything recently, think back to when you first met and try to recall your discussion. In any event, she’ll be pleasantly surprised and super grateful that you listened to her and acted on that situation.

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It’s what every guy wants to know, right?

First impressions are long lasting and women definitely keep this in mind. Everything is given great consideration while preparing for a date – from the outfit, the hairstyle, the shoes, makeup, the mannerisms, etc. Looking her best is important; she wants to tell him that she can put herself together, she has style and that she takes herself very seriously from the start.

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