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You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Therefore, what happens on a first date can set the course of your future. If you want to ensure that your first date is a hit and leads to a second, then you may want to curb your topic of conversation and stay away from some issues that are sure to stir up the waters of debate. Controversy is not a great subject for first date dinner discussions (unless both parties are members of a debate team) but even then, it would be better to stick with general and more pleasant dialogue. Here are some issues that should be avoided at all cost when on a first date.

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In junior high, before our parents would let us go out solo with the cute boy from history class, we embarked into the crowded and often hormone filled cesspool of group dating. Usually we were paired up with other kids our parents were friends with. Or worse, we had to cross our fingers that we didn’t get stuck with older brothers with new driver’s licenses or teamed up with cousins in town visiting for the holidays. All we wanted were a few stolen moments with the cute boy, but we rarely, if ever, got them.

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We’ve all been there, the moment when the conversation on a first date lulls and the only sound in your car is suddenly the unmistakable crooning of a cheesy boy band (wait, how did that get into your CD player?). You quickly punch eject and offer up some clever excuse about how your roommate or little sister gave you the boy band CD as a gag gift (a first date is not the time to confess that you know all of the words to Hangin’ Tough). But now you have this musical void and you need to fill it and fast.

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Almost everyone has had some insanely horrible dates, they are a rite of passage. Bad dates have provided great material for stand up comedians and pity parties. However, while they may appear humorous after the fact, a bad date can also be torturous.

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When you're on a date, there are a number of things you will want to keep in mind. While many people consider themselves to be humorous, intelligent, and attractive, they still find that they don't have a date. One reason for this is because you are probably nervous.

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Perhaps one of the most important factors in the success of a date is the conversation that occurs during it. Failing to have a good conversation is just as bad as picking the wrong place or displaying bad manners. While body language is crucially important, the things you say and how you say them should never be ignored.

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A date could be likened to a job interview, and like a job interview, your body language plays an important role in the process. If you are a man, you should know that a number of studies have indicated that women can automatically detect whether or not you're confident within seconds of meeting you. In their minds, they will make the decision of whether or not they are interested in dating you. The two most important factors that play a role in this process are the tone of your voice and body language. If you are not being successful with your dates, it is likely that you're not applying these techniques properly.

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Here are some good first date tips for women.

Stay away from your cell phone

• Unless you're a doctor or you get a really urgent call, it is best to stay away from your cell phone, it is extremely rude to call or text your friends while ignoring your date.

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Let's face it…first dates are tough and the majority will end before they even really start. Here is a list the five most important things both men and women should keep in mind. A first date is simply two people getting together to find out more about each other…its an interview where you determine if the other person will be a good fit for you. Many of these things may seem like common sense but you will be surprised with the things some people are capable of.

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When should you go in for the goodnight kiss?

Nobody wants to be rejected. So how do you know when it's alright to go in for the first goodnight kiss? Well that's a very difficult call to make since every woman/man is different. As a male, I will tackle this topic from the perspective of the man.

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