PlanJam!From your screen to the scene

In a world full of flowers, first kisses, butterfly stomachs and candlelight dinners, we tend to see the world through relationship-colored glasses. We revel in the company of a special someone, we bask in the afterglow of an afternoon delight and we can't imagine our lives without a ‘plus one' in it.

Romance is in the air and the idea of being single is as dreadful as starting a very-much needed diet during the Holidays; you miss out on all the fun!

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So, he or she has finally called! The endless hours monitoring the phone, the handful of calls to the phone company to make sure that the network connection has not been interrupted by some random freak accident, and the minor burn from the super glue on your hand to make sure you didn't miss 'the call' seems to have all paid off! You got the call, you did the little hallelujah dance and then continued to modestly answer the phone with a nonchalant 'Hello?' Now what?

Well, for those lucky ones who chat until the wee hours of the morning and got to ask the famous high-school talk-fest question "are you asleep?" – Congrats! For the others, the confused, the perplexed individuals – Listen up.

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Everyone wants to know how to attract the man or woman of his or her dreams. However, when it comes to attracting the perfect mate, you may be surprised to discover that you should begin by focusing on yourself. First, if you don’t have a clear understanding of who you are, what you like, or where you are headed in life, it will be impossible to attract other people. Before you can attract someone who is your complement, you must first develop your own individual characteristics and attain your own dreams, goals, and visions.

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You more than likely didn't intend for it to happen. But things just transpired, and now you find that you have developed feelings for your best friend's ex. Though it may feel like true love, you may be wondering if this relationship is doomed from the start. No matter how you feel, one thing is definite, if you date your best friend's ex, your friendship will undoubtedly be strained. In fact, your friend may feel an overwhelming sense of betrayal. This could be heightened depending on how much information your friend shared with you regarding his or her relationship.

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Today, many women are reaching levels of independence that previous times have never seen before. The ideas that were prominent in the past regarding a woman’s role in society has not only progressed, they have radically changed. Many women do not prepare themselves to finish high school, marry, and begin raising a family, as was customary for many generations. Today's woman is career minded as well as goal oriented, and she may not begin to feel ready to rear children until she reaches forty, an age previously believed to be the end of childbearing.

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No, you don’t need to get plastic surgery to become attractive to women. You may be surprised to discover that the qualities women are seeking in men are much more than skin deep. In fact, if you want to become attractive to women, it will serve you greatly to work on inner characteristics and traits rather than the outward appearance. Of course, you need to work on your physical appearance, have good grooming, and make the most of your natural strengths, but the true characteristics that make men the most appealing to women are virtues that rest under the surface. If you’ve ever asked the question, "How did that guy get her?", then these tips are for you.

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Many people today are ending relationships, getting divorced, and finding themselves suddenly back in the dating scene. For some, it’s a little frightening to consider dating again. Whether you just broke up with your first love, or your marriage of thirty years has ended in divorce, here are some quick tips to ensure that your transition into the dating scene is a smooth one.

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Older women offer many benefits for younger men. They are usually self sufficient, have realized their career goals, and have a solid understanding of who they are and what they want in life. Many men are attracted to older woman because they find them more mature, self-confident, and don't require as much commitment in a relationship than their younger peers. For men who aren't looking for a wife or interested in starting a family, older women offer fun, companionship, and the assurance that they are through with their child rearing years. Financial stability also makes older woman more appealing to many men. Younger women may be unsure of what they want in life, and haven't reached their goals. For many younger men, they would rather forgo the pressure and have the stability of an older woman. However, though many men would love to date older women, they are often unsure as where to find them.

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If you’ve been out of the dating scene for any length of time, you may feel uncomfortable or uneasy about planning perfect dates. However, there is no need to fear. No matter how long it’s been since you’ve been in the dating arena, planning perfect dates isn’t difficult at all. By following a few key elements, you can be certain that both you and your partner will have a wonderful time.

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You’ve seen it repeatedly portrayed in movies, the older man stars with the younger woman. In fact, many people find nothing odd about seeing Clint Eastwood or Paul Newman starring with a woman in their twenties as their love interest. However, today, many women are finding that dating younger men offers many benefits. Cameron Diaz dated Justin Timberlake while Demi Moore married Ashton Kutcher. If you’re attracted to significantly older men or women, you aren’t alone. Likewise, if you are a man or woman looking for love in younger places, you’ll find plenty of company. Intergenerational dating is very popular and is becoming increasingly more common.

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