PlanJam!From your screen to the scene

It may come as a surprise, but many short men date tall women. In fact, there are a number of celebrities that are 5'7 and under. A few in particular include Al Pacino, David Spade, Tom Cruise, Michael J. Fox, Emilio Estevez, Dustin Hoffman, Seth Green, Martin Sheen, and Prince (who is 5'2). Despite being short, it would seem that they defy the adage that tall women aren't attracted to shorter men. When it comes down to choosing a mate, height isn't one of the most important factors. Many women choose to date men that are shorter than them. Being short doesn't mean that you have lost your sense of style or appeal. In fact, all of these men are known for their style, good looks, and ability to attract beautiful tall women.

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When a man goes on a first date with a woman, he may be nervous, anxious, and on edge. There may be many mistakes or awkward moments that he finds himself in the middle of, however there are certain mistakes that should always be avoided, whether on the first date or early in a dating relationship. Realizing these mistakes can help men increase their chances of having long meaningful relationships with the woman that they care about and will help bridge the gap from dating to a serious relationship.

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When it comes to dating, everyone wants to be practiced at the art of flirting. Flirting is a great way to break the ice and ensure that you meet the person that you are interested in. Whether you are male or female, are new to the dating scene, or are a dating pro, learning how to be a great flirt can help you overcome many obstacles. Flirting can also help ensure that when you are interested in someone, you have an open door for communication.

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Today, many people succumb to the pressures of working and maintaining a home, and time for leisurely activities tends to fall to the backside. There is no doubt about the fact that people need to work. Without hard work and taking the time to ensure that you perform your job well, you will never succeed in life. To be a hard worker takes time, there’s no questioning that. Staying busy and active are qualities that employers look for and can ultimately result in promotion. On the job, it is a good thing to stay busy, work extra hours, and ensure that your job is performed thoroughly and efficiently. However, there is a point when simple "busyness" becomes obsession.

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Whether you're placing an ad in the personals, or posting your ad to online services, you will need to create a profile. Your profile will basically contain the information that you need to attract the love of your life. However, most profiles have a word limit, and many find this to be a daunting and frustrating task. If you’ve ever been frustrated trying to find the best 25 words that explains your goals, best assets, highlights your most fascinating character traits and explains why you are the best person to meet out of countless others, you’re not alone.

Choosing 25 words that will magically open the eyes of your potential life partner and ignite their curiosity can be difficult. Here are some guidelines that will help ensure that your online profile has everything that it needs to get you noticed and set apart from the crowd.

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I am sure that you’ve heard of, "love at first sight", or "opposites attract", or even heard the statement, "we had instant chemistry". If you’ve ever wondered if there was anything scientific to prove any of these declarations you may be surprised to learn that there are. Many scientific studies are showing that hormones play a strong role in the early stages of a relationship. When couples first fall in love, a number of hormones are on the rise. These hormones elevate feelings of pleasure and explain why couples in love can only think about each other and feel as if they're walking on air.

When an individual first meets a potential love interest, the first question they usually have is whether or not the other party is interested in him or her. If the chemistry exists, then hormones will be elevated and though you may not be able to take a blood test, you can check for certain behaviors. Here are some signs that will let you know whether or not you and your person of interest have chemistry.

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You may have heard the old cliché; "Nice guys finish last" coupled with the thought that all women are interested in "bad boys" and wonder where that leaves you. Let's remove some of the mystery here; it really is unfair to the male species that have no idea if they should behave like James Dean or Ritchie Cunningham. The truth of the matter is that women want men who are nice to them, but know how to hold their own when they are around other males. More specifically, women want a man that is a "nice" guy when it comes to issues such as marriage, raising a family, treating a woman with respect, but they don't want to marry a man who is so "nice" that he acts like a wimp, or can't hold his own. They also want to know that a man is "tough enough" to protect their woman if she is in a dangerous or threatening situation.

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When a couple first falls in love, they are convinced that their mate is perfectly flawless. They have no blemishes, no faults, and are perfect through and through. However, it doesn't take very long before the sparkle starts to lose its shine and the true nature begins to surface. Often, in retrospect, it becomes easy to recognize that the flaws were there all along, but were simply ignored.

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Are you interested in learning how to attract the opposite sex, simply by walking in a room? Of course you are! Everyone wants to unlock the secrets that lie beneath the power of attraction and put them to work for us. Amazingly, the power of attraction is a force that seems to work on its own, almost magically. Sometimes, two people just pass each other by, chemistry clicks, and there is an instant attraction. Have you ever wondered why this phenomenon occurs? Or yet, have you ever wondered if there was anything that you could do to make this attraction happen?

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It's bound to happen. When people work together, they spend a great deal amount of time with each other, and attractions can happen. However, today there are many reasons why you should carefully consider how you handle an office romance. First, there may be legal consequences, so it is best to know all there is regarding your company's polices regarding workplace dating and sexual harassment.

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