PlanJam!From your screen to the scene

Many people spend a lot of time preparing for a date. They take their time choosing where to go, what to wear, they even rehearse the topics of conversation for the evening, yet they often neglect to pay attention to the details concerning how they will end the date.

It’s easy to end a date that has gone sour. In fact, it seems that when on a bad date, all you can do is think of innovative and witty ways to end it. Emergency phone calls arise, sudden illness sets in, and one can quickly come up with a number of get away plans. Amazingly, books have been written on, "Bad Date Escapes", yet the subject is often overlooked when one actually enjoys themselves on their date and wants to leave in a courteous manner.

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Scientific research has shown that there is a direct correlation between seduction, physical attraction, and scent. In fact, this relationship extends further then purchasing a bottle of Chanel No. 5 or Calvin Klein’s newest signature. It extends to a deeper level of human chemical makeup; it involves hormone levels and a substance known as Pheromones. Pheromones are natural chemicals that animals produce for the purpose of sexual attraction, and yes, it has been proven that humans produce Pheromones.

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In the art of love and seduction, there is one area that cannot be overlooked: scent. Many men feel overwhelmed at the thought of choosing the best scent to attract women. However, they may be surprised to learn that the majority of women are aroused by the scent of a clean man who has a slight hint of natural body odor. Now, don’t get excited, throw out your aftershave and deodorant and decide you can forget about doing laundry for the next month, it is only a "slight" hint. Too much body odor and anyone is naturally repulsed.

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What would you say if I told you that nearly 50% of all couples that break up, consider dating their ex again? Maybe you’ve been in this situation, or are contemplating it right now. It’s easy to see why dating your ex is an alluring concept. It’s familiar, you have history together, and there was a time where the both of you were in love. In fact, maybe you’re thinking that your whole break up was a mistake – an immature flight of reason and passion that couldn’t be resolved. You think, "Maybe, its worth another try. Maybe, this time it will work."

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Have you ever wondered why religion and politics should never be discussed? Or have you ever found yourself on a first date, caught yourself bringing the topic up, and then suddenly wishing you hadn’t? Amazingly, many people find that they don’t know when it’s appropriate to discuss controversial topics, such as religion, politics, or moral issues – and yet, these issues are fundamental to every relationship. So when is it a good time to discuss these issues?

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Have you ever wondered where you should go to find a date? Did you ever wish that there were a place where you could just go in and come out with Mr. or Mrs. Right? Typically, when one thinks of a place to find a date, a bar or club comes to mind. However, many people discover that this gets old quick. In fact, if you are looking for a long lasting serious relationship, the bar may not be the best place to find your significant other. Here are some tips for finding the best place to meet that special someone that you are looking for.

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There's no doubt about it, rejection hurts. When it comes to dating and relationships, one thing is as certain as death and taxes – you will experience rejection. Rejection comes in all different shapes and sizes, just like the instrument that delivers it. Whether it is that pretty woman in the bar that you approached, you know- the one who turned her nose up and walked away – or whether it was your boyfriend whom you discovered wasn't spending his late night working hours alone, rejection hurts.

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You’ve done it! You found the person of your dreams. You’ve never been happier; in fact, you think it might be love. Only there’s a little problem, your friends can’t stand him or her. There comes a time when everyone has to face this dilemma- true love or friendship. In fact, it seems that once a relationship becomes serious, friends immediately begin to raise flags of protest demanding that you stop seeing each other. It’s actually really simple – friends get jealous of the time and attentions spent away when one falls in love.

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So, you've just had your first date and surprisingly, you had a wonderful time. Now, you are faced with a dilemma – when is it proper to call and ask for a second date. You may be surprised to find out that everyone has a different opinion for this very common dating question. The answer is simple really; you should call when you feel like it. If you had a wonderful time, and can't wait for a second date, there is nothing wrong with calling. However, if you are worried how they'll respond, you may want to consider how you call.

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You may have just finished school and now you are ready to enjoy the summer months, before beginning college. Your life is full of expectation, anticipation, and many changes. You may be wondering if a summer romance is a good idea. If you are planning on going away to college, the idea of a summer romance may take some extra consideration. Though the thought of spending the summer alone or simply with friends, may seem a bit boring, you may need to weigh the pros and cons of having a summer romance before leaving for college.

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