PlanJam!From your screen to the scene

Last week, I was flipping through channels and I came upon this infomercial for this new type of equipment that allows you to create music. After the creator showed the well-versed host what the average person could do, she said excitedly, “Wow, instant gratification to creativity.”

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I don't know about you, but I often get Xmas gifts that I don't like, care for or even need. For instance, my stepmother would buy me these hideous sweaters and outfits and even though they were not my taste, being the person that I am, I would smile and thank her. After all, I was taught it's the thought that counts. The idea of giving away something someone gave me for Xmas just didn't sit well with me so instead of throwing it out or giving it away, I would feel guilty and I would hold onto it and a couple of years later have a pile of stuff I didn't care for.

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Is there anyone out there who has never been on a blind date before? Better yet, is there anyone out there who has been on a successful blind date? I’ve been on about 4 or 5 blind dates and none of them really turned out to be anything special. One was a movie date. The guy had seen the movie before and chose to narrate each and every scene for me. He was special…not.

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Yes, breakups suck – there’s no polite terminology to describe the aftermath of a ruined relationship. You can cry, eat a pound of ice cream and write angry letters to your ex in your online journal, but eventually it’s time to face reality and realize life isn’t over. But what happens if you think your ex wants you back?

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I’m no stranger to the internet dating game. But if you seriously want to take that route, you need to be open and honest with what you want and what you’re looking for. If you’re not honest about your intentions, you’re only going to set yourself up for disappointment.

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Everyone goes through a period in their relationship where things seem to sour. Maybe your partner doesn't seem interested in spending time with you anymore, or perhaps he's so focused on other obligations he doesn't have time for you. Before you pack your bags and get the heck out of dodge, you should know that this type of behavior can actually be normal in a long-term relationship. I know – shocker, right?

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You've been in a relationship for a moment and are pretty sure about your feelings. You're in love and you're dying to tell that person, but you don't want to be the first one to say it and you're quite sure that given the right moment, they will admit their feelings. A few weeks or even a month has gone by and they haven't said anything. Afraid that you are going to burst, you say those 3 magic words–I love you, only to hear back those 2 dreaded ones, thank you.

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If you've ever been in a relationship with a possessive partner, you'll completely understand the following scenario. About two years ago, I met a man through a mutual friend of ours. I didn't notice any red flags. This man seemed, LITERALLY, perfect, which perhaps was a red flag in and of itself.

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Have you ever asked the question or even been asked the question, should I buy the person I just started dating a gift for the holidays and if yes, what to buy? Or what if you’ve been dating for close to a year and the holidays are coming around. Are you also confused and not sure what the holiday gift etiquette should be?

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A few years ago, I went on a date with a man that I knew I didn't have anything in common with. He took me to a nice restaurant, and then we went for a walk along the beach. Even though I knew I wasn't attracted to him, I couldn't say no when he'd asked me out. Why? I didn't know it then, but my habit of being unable to say no would dictate future relationships, to the point where I would end up hurt, miserable and ultimately alone.

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