Most people start horseback riding with a guided trail ride. The stable matches you with a horse suited to your experience, a wrangler shows you how to mount, steer and stop, and a guide leads the group single file along a set trail, mostly at a walk. Rides range from an hour to a full day. Trail horses know their routes well, which is a big part of why first-timers can enjoy them safely.

If you'd like to really learn to ride, stables and riding schools offer lessons in an arena in English or Western style. English uses a smaller, close-contact saddle and is the basis for jumping and dressage, while Western uses a larger saddle with a horn and grew out of ranch work. Some ranches go further, with beach rides, overnight pack trips and dude ranch vacations.

The Date Activity

A trail ride is a wonderful date for couples who love the outdoors. It's quiet, the scenery is often beautiful, and it's something most people don't do every week. Since you ride single file, most of the talking happens before, after and at rest stops, which makes it better as a second or third date than a first. Sunset rides and beach rides, where they're offered, are the most romantic options.

Ask about a private ride if you want the guide to yourselves; some stables let experienced riders trot or lope on private rides. Pack a picnic for afterward, or make a weekend of it with camping near the trails.

On Your Own / With Friends

Trail rides suit groups and families well, and most stables can take a larger party with advance booking. Children usually need to meet a minimum age to ride their own horse, and some stables offer pony rides for younger kids. Riding alone usually means lessons, which are the best way to build real skill and confidence, and solo riders can always join a group trail ride. To see horses from the other side of the rail, spend an afternoon at horse racing.

Good to Know

Wear long pants, since jeans are fine and shorts will chafe, and closed-toe boots or shoes with a small heel so your foot can't slide through the stirrup. Wear a helmet; many stables provide them. Most stables set a rider weight limit for the horses' welfare, along with minimum ages, and you'll sign a waiver, so check when you book. Be honest about your experience so they can match you with the right horse. Bring sunscreen and water, leave loose hats and dangling items behind, and follow the guide's instructions on the trail.