Ice skating is the rare outing that's fun even when you're bad at it. Indoor rinks run all year and fit public skating sessions in between hockey games, figure skating practice and lessons. Outdoor rinks in parks and city squares usually open for the colder months, and skating under string lights on a winter night is about as charming as a weeknight gets. Some towns also allow skating on frozen ponds, but only go out where the ice is officially checked and posted as open.

You don't need to own anything. Most rinks rent skates by shoe size, along with lockers, and many keep skating aids that beginners and kids can push around for balance. Figure skates have jagged toe picks at the front that catch if you lean too far forward, while hockey skates have a rounded blade with no picks. Many rinks also teach group lessons for adults as well as kids.

The Date Activity

Skating is a classic date for good reason. Holding hands is practical rather than forward, wobbling is funny instead of embarrassing, and you can talk while you circle. If one of you can skate and the other can't, that isn't a problem, it's the plan: the stronger skater gets to be patient and helpful, and the beginner gets a steady arm. Just don't grab your date on the way down. Falling alone is safer for both of you.

Evening sessions are the most romantic, especially at an outdoor rink. Leave time for hot chocolate at the snack bar or a café nearby, then warm up properly with dinner or a late show at the movies. When the rink closes for the season, rollerblading keeps the same skills in use.

On Your Own / With Friends

Rinks are great for groups and birthday parties, and many offer party packages with skate rental and a reserved table. Friends of mixed ability can share the same session, since everyone moves at their own pace. Going alone is completely normal, too. Public sessions are full of solo skaters working on their skills, and a quiet weekday session is the least stressful way to learn.

Good to Know

Check the rink's public skating schedule before you go, since sessions are limited and shift around games and events. Weekends and holidays get crowded. Wear long pants, warm layers you can peel off and gloves, which protect your hands from the cold ice and from blades if you fall. One pair of medium socks works better than thick ones in rental skates. Lace skates snug around the ankle so your feet don't wobble inside them. If you fall, bend your knees, go down to the side, keep your fingers out of the way of passing skaters and get up quickly. Everyone skates in the same direction, so go with the flow. Helmets are a smart idea for young kids and nervous beginners.