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Platonic Dating

by Ron Zvagelsky

An invitation arrives in the mail to your old college roommate’s wedding. Scratched in taunting calligraphy on the response envelope is the RSVP phrase that most single girls have come to dread: Plus one? Not only do you have to loose twenty pounds and find a stunning dress for the wedding, but also now you are saddled with the overwhelming task of finding a suitable date that makes all of your former classmates jealous.

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Cooking For Your Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

All of us remember the golden adage from our parent’s generation, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. However in today’s world the likelihood that any of us managed to graduate with a credit from the fine art of home economics is rare. Chances are we never learned how to perfect a meal that would effectively woo.

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Ice Skating With Your Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

Ice skating is a great activity to enjoy by yourself, on a date, or with a group of friends. In the past, ice skating was not just a recreational activity, but a way to travel over frozen lakes or rivers.

Today, ice skating can still be done on a natural ice surface, but most of the time people prefer to skate on a man-made ice skating rink. Because of the popularity of the sport, indoor ice skating rinks are available in most cities, and you can now ice skate all year round.

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Daytime Dating

by Ron Zvagelsky

Full, golden moons and shooting stars are some of the romantic celestial gems often dreamed about for that perfect night out with your date. However, when you go on a date at night, the expectations for a date to go beyond your front door, whether you are ready to or not, are often there. One way to avoid the awkward pause at the front door is to not even have it be part of the equation until you are ready for it. This is easily achieved by dating in the daytime.

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Deciphering Date Music

by Ron Zvagelsky

We’ve all been there, the moment when the conversation on a first date lulls and the only sound in your car is suddenly the unmistakable crooning of a cheesy boy band (wait, how did that get into your CD player?). You quickly punch eject and offer up some clever excuse about how your roommate or little sister gave you the boy band CD as a gag gift (a first date is not the time to confess that you know all of the words to Hangin’ Tough). But now you have this musical void and you need to fill it and fast.

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Dating On A Budget

by Ron Zvagelsky

Just because things are tight in your checking account doesn’t mean that you have to board up all of the windows and turn down dates. Dating with little or no money is easy if you keep an open mind. Sure you could throw yourself at the mercy of the person that you are dating, but expecting your date to pay your way takes the excitement out of flying by the seat of your pants. Besides, some of the most romantic dates can transpire with very little money.

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Dating In A New Town

by Ron Zvagelsky

Finding yourself suddenly single is not always pleasant. One of the many suggestions you will get will be to “get back out there” and look for another fish in the sea. This can seem daunting and overwhelming, especially if you are newly single in a new town. How are you supposed to snag a new man if you can’t even figure out which grocery store to call your own? The key is to multi-task. Why separate the two when you can easily pool your energy into one fun mega task?

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