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Male Self Esteem & Sex

by Ron Zvagelsky

Male Self Esteem and SexWhen it comes to sex, it's important that both members enter into all aspects of their relationship with a healthy and positive attitude. However, no one is positive every day, and it's only a matter of time before doubt, low self esteem, and negativity may cause issues to arise.

One area in particular, where low self-image can wreak havoc in a relationship, is when men struggle with self esteem issues regarding sex. This may be due to comments that their partner has made, issues that existed in previous relationships, or simply a poor self-image that the man has imagined. However, despite the cause, there is no doubt that low self esteem can negatively affect the way a man performs sexually.

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Is Your Relationship Moving Too Fast?

by Ron Zvagelsky

Relationship Moving Too FastSo you've been dating for several months and now you are talking about getting married. Your friends and family ask you if you've lost your mind and you respond with stars in your eyes, "But we're in love...".

As the word love rolls off of your tongue you wonder for a brief moment if your relationship is moving too fast, and you quickly turn to thoughts of your wedding gown, potential bridesmaids, and wonder what your engagement ring will look like.

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Attracting The Opposite Sex

by Ron Zvagelsky

Attracting The Opposite SexAre you interested in learning how to attract the opposite sex, simply by walking in a room? Of course you are! Everyone wants to unlock the secrets that lie beneath the power of attraction and put them to work for us. Amazingly, the power of attraction is a force that seems to work on its own, almost magically. Sometimes, two people just pass each other by, chemistry clicks, and there is an instant attraction. Have you ever wondered why this phenomenon occurs? Or yet, have you ever wondered if there was anything that you could do to make this attraction happen?

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Workplace Dating & Sexual Harassment

by Ron Zvagelsky

Office Romance & Sexual HarassmentIt's bound to happen. When people work together, they spend a great deal amount of time with each other, and attractions can happen. However, today there are many reasons why you should carefully consider how you handle an office romance. First, there may be legal consequences, so it is best to know all there is regarding your company's polices regarding workplace dating and sexual harassment.

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Long Distance Relationships And The Military

by Ron Zvagelsky

Military RelationshipsYou’ve heard about long distance relationships, but how about long distance marriages? Well, that’s exactly what our friends and family members who are serving in the military are experiencing. There is no question that serving in the military takes a toll on everyone, but for those who are married or whose significant other is deployed over seas, the toll can be wearisome. The key to making your military long distance relationship last is communication.

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How To End A Great Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

Ending A Great DateMany people spend a lot of time preparing for a date. They take their time choosing where to go, what to wear, they even rehearse the topics of conversation for the evening, yet they often neglect to pay attention to the details concerning how they will end the date.

It’s easy to end a date that has gone sour. In fact, it seems that when on a bad date, all you can do is think of innovative and witty ways to end it. Emergency phone calls arise, sudden illness sets in, and one can quickly come up with a number of get away plans. Amazingly, books have been written on, "Bad Date Escapes", yet the subject is often overlooked when one actually enjoys themselves on their date and wants to leave in a courteous manner.

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The Scent of Seduction Part 2: Scents For Women

by Ron Zvagelsky

Vanilla BeansScientific research has shown that there is a direct correlation between seduction, physical attraction, and scent. In fact, this relationship extends further then purchasing a bottle of Chanel No. 5 or Calvin Klein’s newest signature. It extends to a deeper level of human chemical makeup; it involves hormone levels and a substance known as Pheromones. Pheromones are natural chemicals that animals produce for the purpose of sexual attraction, and yes, it has been proven that humans produce Pheromones.

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The Scent of Seduction Part 1: Scents For Men

by Ron Zvagelsky

Black LicoriceIn the art of love and seduction, there is one area that cannot be overlooked: scent. Many men feel overwhelmed at the thought of choosing the best scent to attract women. However, they may be surprised to learn that the majority of women are aroused by the scent of a clean man who has a slight hint of natural body odor. Now, don’t get excited, throw out your aftershave and deodorant and decide you can forget about doing laundry for the next month, it is only a "slight" hint. Too much body odor and anyone is naturally repulsed.

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Dating Your Ex: Again

by Ron Zvagelsky

Dating Your Ex AgainWhat would you say if I told you that nearly 50% of all couples that break up, consider dating their ex again? Maybe you’ve been in this situation, or are contemplating it right now. It’s easy to see why dating your ex is an alluring concept. It’s familiar, you have history together, and there was a time where the both of you were in love. In fact, maybe you’re thinking that your whole break up was a mistake - an immature flight of reason and passion that couldn’t be resolved. You think, "Maybe, its worth another try. Maybe, this time it will work."

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Controversial Date Topics

by Ron Zvagelsky

Controversial Date TopicsHave you ever wondered why religion and politics should never be discussed? Or have you ever found yourself on a first date, caught yourself bringing the topic up, and then suddenly wishing you hadn’t? Amazingly, many people find that they don’t know when it’s appropriate to discuss controversial topics, such as religion, politics, or moral issues – and yet, these issues are fundamental to every relationship. So when is it a good time to discuss these issues?

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