Regardless of how you feel about Tom Cruise (i.e. his beliefs, couch jumping, etc.), one can’t deny that he really is a remarkable actor. After the Mission Impossible Trilogy (some purists will argue that there was only one true trilogy, but never mind that) and lackluster films like War of the Worlds and Eyes Wide Shut, I sometimes forget what Tom Cruise is really capable of. Cruise is an extremely versatile actor and should really be remembered for his performances in films such as Risky Business, Rain Man, Born on the Fourth of July, and my favorite – Magnolia. Those are all great films, but since we’re discussing date movies, let’s get to Jerry Maguire.
Jerry Maguire (ROMANCE – 1996 – Starring Tom Cruise, Cuba Gooding Jr., and Renee Zellweger): In Jerry Maguire, Tom Cruise plays a successful sports agent who begins to question the morality of his work. After a dramatic scene at the office, he’s left with an egomaniacal athlete (played by Cuba Gooding Jr. who went on to win an Academy Award), a single mother (Renee Zellweger), and a goldfish. It’s a great story about starting over, staying true to yourself, and most importantly – taking a chance on others. The film has some good comedy and the romance is not too corny…so it should appeal to most tastes.
On a side note, even though date flicks are usually associated with the romantic genre, I’ll be sure to feature some other themes in the next few weeks.
You may have heard the saying, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression,” and when it comes to dating, the first impression can make or break your future relationship. Studies have shown that the first 30 seconds of your first impression can determine whether or not each person will remain interested in pursuing communication. Therefore, if you like what you see and want to give a relationship a try, it is imperative that your first impression is one that will last and leave him or her wanting to get to know more about you.
We always wondered how many people actually end up doing the things we suggest…so this was really refreshing.
Last week we received an email from one of our users, Alan Oratovsky, thanking us for helping him plan his date. Alan works as a paramedic in Riverside, California and he wanted to do something really special and romantic for his girlfriend. He began by taking a 45-minute helicopter tour of Los Angeles at sunset and finished it off with a candlelight dinner by the beach.
Here are some photos that Alan included from his helicopter ride:
If you had a great date and want to share it with others, send us the details and we’ll put it up
When a couple first falls in love, romance seems to come naturally. They stay on the phone with each other until all hours of the night, can’t bear to be apart from each other, and count the seconds until they can see each other again. It is natural that this couple will secure their newly found love with a commitment. Whether it is marriage, or a union that symbolizes their dedication to each other, every couple is convinced that their relationship will be the one that is driven by fiery passion and will never run cold.
It is inevitable! After a certain period of time, you and your partner will encounter moments when you feel less intimate with one another. Lack of intimacy can be emotional, physical, or both. Often, these are passing phases in a relationship, but due to the stress that lack of intimacy can cause, many relationships fail to bounce back after this period. There are a number of things that can decrease the level of intimacy in a relationship. Some of these include:
You’ve been together for a long time, but now you can’t wait to be single again. You’ve been fighting constantly, never seem to agree on anything, and the thought of spending a night together bores you terribly. To top it off, you’ve been thinking that maybe it is time to call it quits.
City of Angels (ROMANCE - 1998 - Starring Nicolas Cage & Meg Ryan): It’s a story of an angel who forgoes his immortality and place in heaven to be with the woman he loves on earth. It’s a love story, but more specifically, it makes one question how much he/she would sacrifice for the sake of love. It’s a little bit of a tear jerker so make sure you have the Kleenex handy!
Romantic games are a great way to spend quality intimate time with your partner. They are fun, sexy, and help you loosen up in areas where you may feel shy or uncomfortable. There are a number of different romance games available to choose from. However, some games may seem more innocent, while others may be more risqué.
When it comes to love and romance, everyone can use a little help now and then whether it is to relax, to enjoy the mood, or to heighten the experience and stimulation. Fortunately, there are many natural aphrodisiacs that are available that are legal, safe, and even beneficial. There are a number of different herbs, herbal remedies, and certain foods that have been revered for centuries for their natural aphrodisiac properties.
Many people are afraid of the big C – also known as commitment. However, without commitment many relationships are doomed for failure. Some people are so afraid of committing in a relationship that they actually have a phobia about it. Many relationships end suddenly because one partner is ready for a commitment and the other is not. Whether you are thinking about a marriage commitment or just interested in dating your partner exclusively, commitment is a big step and one that both partners need to agree upon before taking together. If one party is committed and the other is not, a troubled journey lies ahead. Here are some issues to take into consideration to help determine if you are ready for a commitment.
Jerry Maguire (ROMANCE – 1996 – Starring Tom Cruise, Cuba Gooding Jr., and Renee Zellweger): In Jerry Maguire, Tom Cruise plays a successful sports agent who begins to question the morality of his work. After a dramatic scene at the office, he’s left with an egomaniacal athlete (played by Cuba Gooding Jr. who went on to win an Academy Award), a single mother (Renee Zellweger), and a goldfish. It’s a great story about starting over, staying true to yourself, and most importantly – taking a chance on others. The film has some good comedy and the romance is not too corny…so it should appeal to most tastes.
City of Angels