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Group Dating In Your Thirties

by Ron Zvagelsky

In junior high, before our parents would let us go out solo with the cute boy from history class, we embarked into the crowded and often hormone filled cesspool of group dating. Usually we were paired up with other kids our parents were friends with. Or worse, we had to cross our fingers that we didn’t get stuck with older brothers with new driver’s licenses or teamed up with cousins in town visiting for the holidays. All we wanted were a few stolen moments with the cute boy, but we rarely, if ever, got them.

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Getting Back Into Dating

by Ron Zvagelsky

Every once in a while a good guy slips through the cracks. Maybe you had a high school boyfriend that is always on your mind, or a fling from that summer you spent in London. Perhaps it is just your average, run of the mill ex, and you can no longer remember why you broke up. With a whole new crop of networking sites popping up, it seems like a lot of people are curious about whatever happened to the guy that got away.

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Recycling Your Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

Henry was a good guy. You two had a lot of fun, he got along well with your parents and he had excellent taste in foreign films. In theory he would have made the perfect boyfriend, but for whatever reason, the chemistry wasn’t there and now you find yourself with an amicable ex-boyfriend. Really, no hard feelings.

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Platonic Dating

by Ron Zvagelsky

An invitation arrives in the mail to your old college roommate’s wedding. Scratched in taunting calligraphy on the response envelope is the RSVP phrase that most single girls have come to dread: Plus one? Not only do you have to loose twenty pounds and find a stunning dress for the wedding, but also now you are saddled with the overwhelming task of finding a suitable date that makes all of your former classmates jealous.

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Cooking For Your Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

All of us remember the golden adage from our parent’s generation, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. However in today’s world the likelihood that any of us managed to graduate with a credit from the fine art of home economics is rare. Chances are we never learned how to perfect a meal that would effectively woo.

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Ice Skating With Your Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

Ice skating is a great activity to enjoy by yourself, on a date, or with a group of friends. In the past, ice skating was not just a recreational activity, but a way to travel over frozen lakes or rivers.

Today, ice skating can still be done on a natural ice surface, but most of the time people prefer to skate on a man-made ice skating rink. Because of the popularity of the sport, indoor ice skating rinks are available in most cities, and you can now ice skate all year round.

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