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Date Movie: "Coming To America"

by Ron Zvagelsky

Coming to AmericaComing To America (COMEDY – 1988 – Eddie Murphy and Arsenio Hall): On his 21st birthday, Prince Akeem (Murphy) of Zamunda was set to marry a woman that he had never met…a bride that was groomed from birth to fulfill his every need. Breaking from a tradition of arranged marriages, Akeem set out to find a woman that would love him for who he was, and not for what he was born into.

So where does one go to find his Queen? Queens, New York of course.

Coming To America is a great romantic comedy and easily one of Eddie Murphy’s best films.

Double Dating

by Ron Zvagelsky

We've all been there. You’re in a relationship and so is your best friend, and you guys hardly get a chance to see each other anymore. So what can you do to fix it? Plan a double date. When deciding what to do on your double date, try to go somewhere that will be fun for everyone, perhaps it's a favorite restaurant or club or maybe even a fun night in for a more relaxed atmosphere.

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Tips For Choosing An Online Dating Site

by Ron Zvagelsky

The Internet affords singles greater opportunities to find a partner then people have ever experienced before. Today, it is possible to browse potential life partners worldwide and to narrow the field by selecting people based upon sexual orientation, ethnic groups, religious preferences, work professions, and even hobbies. Some of the ways that people use the Internet for finding potential mates is by using chat rooms, Instant Messaging services, and joining online dating sites.

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Dating Anniversary Gifts

by Ron Zvagelsky

So you’ve been dating steadily and you want to give anniversary gifts, yet you aren’t sure what would be appropriate. It makes sense that you are a little confused. First, when you are dating, you may not feel comfortable giving gifts that are appropriate for married couples, yet you still want to express your feelings of love, so what should you do? Well, here are some ideas that can help you find the perfect anniversary gift whether you have been dating for one month or several years.

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Date Movie: "Sleepless In Seattle"

by Ron Zvagelsky

Sleepless in SeattleSleepless In Seattle (Romance - 1993 - Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan): After losing his wife to cancer, Tom Hank’s character moves to Seattle with his 8 year old son to start his life over. Late one evening, his son calls a national radio station and persuades his dad into talking on the air. Serendipitously, Meg Ryan’s character is listening in that evening and is touched by his story. Afterwards, Tom Hanks begins to receive letters from women all over the country who want to meet him. As you may have already guessed, one of the letters he receives is from Meg Ryan. Will they end up meeting and living happily ever after?

Sleepless In Seattle is a date movie classic, but if you're not into the romantic comedy genre, you may have a little difficulty sitting through this one.

Booking Trips Early In The Relationship

by Ron Zvagelsky

Booking a tripHave you ever met someone who turned out to be completely different…almost psychotic? In the beginning you think their little antics are cute, but as times goes on, it becomes unbearable.

It was a sunny afternoon in July when I received an email from British Airways with an amazing deal on airfare. It was a roundtrip ticket to Paris for only $239 (came out to about $400 with taxes). That day I was having lunch with my girlfriend (whom I had been dating for about 2 months now) at PF Changs and I told her about the email I received. She was ecstatic about the news and begged me to take her to Paris for New Years. I obliged and went home to purchase the tickets. At the time we were both still in College so we agreed to split the cost of the trip…which is perfectly normal. I came home and booked the entire trip on my credit card and explained to her that American Express requires payment in full and that she had about a month to pay me back. She agreed.

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Dating Ethics

by Ron Zvagelsky

Ethics - a set of moral values or principles; often based upon the difference between right and wrong.

When we discuss ethical dating, we are basically talking about morality and distinguishing between right and wrong behavior in a relationship. Ethics and dating pertains to a number of different areas. If you are dating within your faith, then ethics will play a large role based upon the common views that you share. Yet, what may be considered ethical for your relationship may not be applicable to another. However, no matter what your faith, gender, or orientation, there is one are that is simply unethical when dating - cheating.

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Suddenly Single

by Ron Zvagelsky

Whether recently separated, divorced, or widowed becoming suddenly single means change. There will inevitably be a grieving period, a time where you will need to grieve the conclusion of the relationship that you once nurtured, cherished, and held dear to your heart. Though there may be times of mixed emotions, overwhelming sadness, and even despair, it is important to realize that time does heal all wounds and in time you will be ready to date again.

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Is It Doomed? How to spot the signs early on

by Ron Zvagelsky

Doomed RelationshipSo I meet this girl in my Calculus class during my sophomore year in college. You see, I was really good at Math (with numbers in General)…it was a little scary actually. In fact, I don’t think there was a single person in the entire class who liked me since I would always annihilate the grading curve. I would even catch the Asian girls giving me dirty looks when the professor announced that I received the highest grade. But that’s a whole different story. Around finals week, this girl from class approaches me and asks me for help on the final exam. I’m a nice guy so I give her my phone number and tell her to call me later on in the evening after I finished with work at 8pm.

The Phone Call

I get a call from her at around 11pm (even though I told her 8pm) and she began talking. She talked, and she talked, and when she was done talking…she started over again. It was about half past midnight and she had yet to ask me a single question about myself. At the same time, I already knew her favorite food, her Father’s occupation, her dog’s nickname, and what color Burberry belt she was going to buy on the weekend. We spoke for about 5 hours (mainly she spoke) and we only discussed Math for about 30 minutes. We hung up the phone at around 4am that evening and went to sleep.

Asking Her Out

I told my friend Mike that I spoke to this girl over the phone for 5 hours and he convinced me that there was something more to her. I found out later on that he only wanted me to call her so that we could all go out as a group (she would bring along a girlfriend). After the final exam, I waked her over to her car and ended up asking her out on a date for the upcoming weekend. Fortunately for Mike, he would not be a part of this date.

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Romantic Gifts For Him

by Ron Zvagelsky

Women are always looking for the best romantic gift to give to her man. Men deserve romance as well, and ensuring that your gift expresses your heartfelt love and admiration will make your gift even more special. These gifts are perfect for birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, or any time you just want to let him know that you love him.

Here are some great ideas for romantic gifts for him:

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