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Category: Dating Advice

Platonic Dating

by Ron Zvagelsky

An invitation arrives in the mail to your old college roommate’s wedding. Scratched in taunting calligraphy on the response envelope is the RSVP phrase that most single girls have come to dread: Plus one? Not only do you have to loose twenty pounds and find a stunning dress for the wedding, but also now you are saddled with the overwhelming task of finding a suitable date that makes all of your former classmates jealous.

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Cooking For Your Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

All of us remember the golden adage from our parent’s generation, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. However in today’s world the likelihood that any of us managed to graduate with a credit from the fine art of home economics is rare. Chances are we never learned how to perfect a meal that would effectively woo.

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Deciphering Date Music

by Ron Zvagelsky

We’ve all been there, the moment when the conversation on a first date lulls and the only sound in your car is suddenly the unmistakable crooning of a cheesy boy band (wait, how did that get into your CD player?). You quickly punch eject and offer up some clever excuse about how your roommate or little sister gave you the boy band CD as a gag gift (a first date is not the time to confess that you know all of the words to Hangin’ Tough). But now you have this musical void and you need to fill it and fast.

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Dating In A New Town

by Ron Zvagelsky

Finding yourself suddenly single is not always pleasant. One of the many suggestions you will get will be to “get back out there” and look for another fish in the sea. This can seem daunting and overwhelming, especially if you are newly single in a new town. How are you supposed to snag a new man if you can’t even figure out which grocery store to call your own? The key is to multi-task. Why separate the two when you can easily pool your energy into one fun mega task?

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The Lunch Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

Weekends fill up so fast with activities and obligations. Finding time to date or meet people suddenly takes a back seat to all of the stuff that has to get done before the alarm clock goes off bright and early Monday morning. Luckily for you most jobs allocate at least a forty-five minute lunch time to break up the mundane ness of the typical eight-hour work shift. Even thirty minutes is enough time to squeeze in some romance.

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