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Category: Dating Advice

Dating Tips For Men

by Ron Zvagelsky

For men, going on a date can be a tricky task. If you are like most men, you want nothing more than to impress the woman you are dating. To do this successfully, there are a number of guidelines you will want to follow. If you do these things correctly on the first date, things will get easier on the second, third, and fourth dates. To some degree, you will first need to make some readjustments before you go on the date. This does not mean that you should change yourself completely. Learning how to date properly for the first time is almost like riding a bike. However, once you understand it, it will become like a second language.

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Why Body Language is Important on Dates

by Ron Zvagelsky

A date could be likened to a job interview, and like a job interview, your body language plays an important role in the process. If you are a man, you should know that a number of studies have indicated that women can automatically detect whether or not you're confident within seconds of meeting you. In their minds, they will make the decision of whether or not they are interested in dating you. The two most important factors that play a role in this process are the tone of your voice and body language. If you are not being successful with your dates, it is likely that you're not applying these techniques properly.

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Increasing your odds at the bar

by Ron Zvagelsky

You always lose when going for the best looking person.

The Lion

Picture the lion hunting in the savannah as he comes across a herd of delectable gazelle. The lion circles his prey, crouches in the shrub, and then pounces on the unsuspecting gazelle. The lion does not go after the fastest gazelle because he knows that he will never catch it; rather, he goes for the slowest.

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Five Tips for Your First Date

by Ron Zvagelsky

Let's face it...first dates are tough and the majority will end before they even really start. Here is a list the five most important things both men and women should keep in mind. A first date is simply two people getting together to find out more about each other...its an interview where you determine if the other person will be a good fit for you. Many of these things may seem like common sense but you will be surprised with the things some people are capable of.

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